Death of a Mother and Cancer of the Breast

According to German researcher Ryka Geerd Hamer, M.D., there is a psychological reason for many adult cancers. I am dealing now with one of the reported causes, a severe emotionally upsetting experience involving mother. One so intense it caused sleeplessness, much anxiety, and other physical and psychological disturbances (cold hands).

In my limited experience with cancer, but extensive experience with depression, the underlying emotion when there is a death of a loved one is GUILT. I find guilt from an abortion frequently when treating depression. I have not yet encountered an abortion as a suspected cause of breast cancer, but it is quite possible.

According to Dr. Hamer, anything that causes a severe emotional upset can be a cause that initiates cancer growth, but there may be more than one cause. I often find the doctor's way of telling you that you have cancer can be most upsetting, like a death sentence.

In Dr. Hamer's personal case, his son was shot in his bed (accidentally) by an Italian member of the royal family in Italy. Dr. Hamer subsequently developed testicular cancer. He thought there might be a connection with his son's death and there was. He cured himself by resolution of the conflicts within him.

Being an oncologist in a large hospital in Munich, he queried cancer patients (thousands) and found upsetting events about two years before the cancer was discovered. Carl Simonton, M.D. here in America discovered the same thing. He is a radiologist.

So the purpose of this page is to make you aware of a possible cause of your cancer. The first thing would be to search for your personal traumatic event, which could involve a child instead of a mother. Do this for ANY debilitating, serious disease. According to Dr. Hamer you should resolve the conflicts in your mind, make peace with the past and stop carrying self-blame.

Following the death of a mother, I hear these things from people I've worked with.
1. I should have gotten her a better doctor, or in a better hospital.
2. I should have spent more time with her, seen her more often.
3. I should have put her in a better nursing facility.
4. I should have been there when she died.

If you or a loved one has breast cancer (left breast for right handed women), be suspicious of a breakdown in a mother or child relationship. If the woman with breast cancer can THINK of mother and feel predominantly depressing feelings, that may be where the problem lies. Not just missing them, but could be on the verge of tears.

So whether you or someone you know has cancer of the breast (usually left), this exercise may help you lift the heavy burden of guilt caused by self-blame. If your mother loved you, would she want you to be depressed and possibly develop cancer or have to take constant medication for depression? You have to learn to let the past go. Your mother is gone. She would want you to go on with your life and be a joy to those you love. I will try to help you break the unpleasant parts of the bond with your mother, letting you retain all the good feelings.

I do this with a little mental exercise lasting about 3 or 4 minutes by means of a sound file below. It is the nature of the subconscious to accept commands or suggestions from someone other than yourself if they are to be beneficial to you. The message, if you're willing, goes directly to the subconscious and it will act on the suggestion within a few minutes. You will be able to think of your mother with no feelings of depression. The feelings from happy times you had with her and her smile will be with you forever.

The message goes something like this: "When I sound the buzzer and say DISCONNECT! it will disconnect you emotionally from all the upsets you ever had involving your mother." Then I sound the buzzer and say "DISCONNECT!" No, it doesn't make rational sense. But the subconscious, where the problem is, isn't rational. It works, and I've used it thousands of times for various things since 1974, even on radio and television, and of course by telephone. I urge you to play the recording below every day or two until you feel sure that all the guilt is gone.

This is an experimental, stress-relief therapy and must not interfere with whatever else you are doing to combat a cancer. It may help, it may not. I am not a doctor. I am a lay therapist (no advanced degree in psychology).

Loren Parks, Psychological Research Foundation, Inc. A tax-exempt Foundation 501-c(3)

Download file. If you are using Netscape, you need to right click on the link above and choose "Save Link As" and then choose a location to save it to (ie. your desktop). If you are using Explorer 5 or above, you should just be able to click on the link and it will play. If this does not work, follow the same instructions as for Netscape.